Comments for Steal an Estate - GET RICH On Other People's Money!!! http://stealanestate.wordpress.com Just another WordPress.com weblog Fri, 24 Oct 2008 22:21:39 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on How To Steal an Estate by BreezyAZ http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/2007/06/15/overview-how-to-steal-an-estate/#comment-99 BreezyAZ Fri, 24 Oct 2008 22:21:39 +0000 http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/2007/06/15/overview-how-to-steal-an-estate/#comment-99 My brother in law is an attorney. I just have one older sister married to HIM. We discussed bringing out our widowed mom from CA 3 years ago because she was starting to get dementia and had called the police and her bank (I did not know this at the time) telling them my brother in law stole $4,000 from her. (I heard it from my son). He and my older sister packed her up and brought her back to Phoenix to live a a nursing home in a nice private room. Everything seemed fine. One day I asked my Mom where her papers and checkbook were. She didn't know! I called my sister (who would not take my call) and my brother in law said my mom created a Living Trust with a friend of his ( an attorney friend) and it was all finished and she signed it. Mom said she never signed anything. She had no recollection of an attorney coming to her room and signing papers (as he had told me). I had my mom write a note and sign it allowing me to get a copy of any and all papers from the Living Trust attorney. The attorney would not allow me a copy! He suggested I come down to his office to 'view' it. I did that. How could I understand that legal jargon? It was bizarre to sit there and page through this 'big book' all by myself in a room!! I noticed my name was taken off everything which on older wills my mom created, used to say I was co-executor with my sister. No more. my brother in law's name RULES. Now, everything of my mother's is owned and controlled by my attorney brother in law and his attorney friend and I am only mentioned once in the will as getting money to help with bills when she dies. Meanwhile I've done nothing because I don't know how to go up against these two attorneys AND not upset my mom over it. She thinks my brother in law is 'untrustworthy' and tells me everything is fine with her will and my sister and I am co-executives of it. When pressed on details she gets very upset and threatens to give it away to charity. She can't stand to think it's in jepardy or we're greedy. One other horrible thing I didn't mention is that my mom did not believe in the stock market and never had a dime in it. My brother in law invested it in the stock market!! I told him not to do that but he said they're only in SAFE THINGS! (big joke now!) Is there anything I can do without them contacting my mom? I'm so afraid if she gets upset she'd have a heart attack. Then I would be responsible. After calling my brother in law AGAIN about getting a copy of the will, one was finally sent to me. I have not opened it. My feelings of hatred toward my brother in law for stealing from my mom and not letting me talk to my sister in years is a lot to bear. Any ideas are welcome! My brother in law is an attorney. I just have one older sister married to HIM.
We discussed bringing out our widowed mom from CA 3 years ago because she was starting to get dementia and had called the police and her bank (I did not know this at the time) telling them my brother in law stole $4,000 from her. (I heard it from my son).
He and my older sister packed her up and brought her back to Phoenix to live a a nursing home in a nice private room. Everything seemed fine.
One day I asked my Mom where her papers and checkbook were. She didn’t know! I called my sister (who would not take my call) and my brother in law said my mom created a Living Trust with a friend of his ( an attorney friend) and it was all finished and she signed it. Mom said she never signed anything. She had no recollection of an attorney coming to her room and signing papers (as he had told me).
I had my mom write a note and sign it allowing me to get a copy of any and all papers from the Living Trust attorney. The attorney would not allow me a copy!
He suggested I come down to his office to ‘view’ it. I did that. How could I understand that legal jargon? It was bizarre to sit there and page through this ‘big book’ all by myself in a room!!
I noticed my name was taken off everything which on older wills my mom created, used to say I was co-executor with my sister. No more.
my brother in law’s name RULES.
Now, everything of my mother’s is owned and controlled by my attorney brother in law and his attorney friend and I am only mentioned once in the will as getting money to help with bills when she dies. Meanwhile I’ve done nothing because I don’t know how to go up against these two attorneys AND not upset my mom over it. She thinks my brother in law is ‘untrustworthy’ and tells me everything is fine with her will and my sister and I am co-executives of it. When pressed on details she gets very upset and threatens to give it away to charity. She can’t stand to think it’s in jepardy or we’re greedy.
One other horrible thing I didn’t mention is that my mom did not believe in the stock market and never had a dime in it. My brother in law invested it in the stock market!! I told him not to do that but he said they’re only in SAFE THINGS! (big joke now!)
Is there anything I can do without them contacting my mom? I’m so afraid if she gets upset she’d have a heart attack. Then I would be responsible. After calling my brother in law AGAIN about getting a copy of the will, one was finally sent to me. I have not opened it.
My feelings of hatred toward my brother in law for stealing from my mom and not letting me talk to my sister in years is a lot to bear.
Any ideas are welcome!

]]> Comment on Deliberately Tasteless, YES! by A Greiving Family Member... http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/deliberately-tasteless-yes/#comment-88 A Greiving Family Member... Fri, 05 Sep 2008 17:32:33 +0000 http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/deliberately-tasteless-yes/#comment-88 This same thing is happening to my family right now. This guy (not a member of the family) got everything through a fradulent will, we found out what was in the real will. We are all heartbroken, but at least she knew we loved her and this bastard's carma will come back hard on him for what he has done to many people. In other words we are not the first. Unfortunately. he's sold everything within a month of he death and has it liquidated into a foreign account of some sort. His greed and hate will kill him and he will rot in hell for what he has done to everyone involved. This same thing is happening to my family right now. This guy (not a member of the family) got everything through a fradulent will, we found out what was in the real will. We are all heartbroken, but at least she knew we loved her and this bastard’s carma will come back hard on him for what he has done to many people. In other words we are not the first. Unfortunately. he’s sold everything within a month of he death and has it liquidated into a foreign account of some sort. His greed and hate will kill him and he will rot in hell for what he has done to everyone involved.

]]> Comment on How To Steal an Estate by Marge http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/2007/06/15/overview-how-to-steal-an-estate/#comment-82 Marge Tue, 26 Aug 2008 05:18:11 +0000 http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/2007/06/15/overview-how-to-steal-an-estate/#comment-82 I watched a very close family friend be convinced to give money to bogus causes and to change an estate plan that had been in place for years. Since he'd never been married, there was no one with legal standing to question what was going on. Once I began my own research into the effects of undue influence I began hearing many similar stories... a few that happened to relatives, but even more that happened to friends or neighbors with no heirs. Please visit the site http://ElderUndueInfluence.org/stories/ to get a small sampling. If you've got an experience to share, whether it relates to a friend, relative or acquaintance, please follow the link to the questionnaire at the end of that page. The survey allows you to enter as little, or as much information as you are comfortable with. You can enter contact information, or leave it blank and remain anonymous. Thank you in advance for helping with this project! I watched a very close family friend be convinced to give money to bogus causes and to change an estate plan that had been in place for years. Since he’d never been married, there was no one with legal standing to question what was going on. Once I began my own research into the effects of undue influence I began hearing many similar stories… a few that happened to relatives, but even more that happened to friends or neighbors with no heirs.

Please visit the site http://ElderUndueInfluence.org/stories/ to get a small sampling. If you’ve got an experience to share, whether it relates to a friend, relative or acquaintance, please follow the link to the questionnaire at the end of that page. The survey allows you to enter as little, or as much information as you are comfortable with. You can enter contact information, or leave it blank and remain anonymous.

Thank you in advance for helping with this project!

]]> Comment on Avoid Impartial Outsiders by Concerned in Dallas http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/avoiding-independent-outsiders/#comment-78 Concerned in Dallas Sat, 23 Aug 2008 16:29:38 +0000 http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/avoiding-independent-outsiders/#comment-78 Private bank trust departments can also appear secretive and manipulate elders' daily lives. How can a concerned person get documentation of client meetings for the frail elder? The private bank officer perpetrates undue influence, even to the point of selecting vendors and service providers, because the elder is frail. While not indicative of all areas, in this city, experience with private banks has shown me that private bankers do not subject themselves to full disclosure. It's a problem when the frail elder is the trustee and relatives are not in the geographic area to be involved. I agree: keeping everything open and transparent is the best course. It follows my social work training. Wish I could say that my experience with private bank trust officers concurred, but it does not. Private bank trust departments can also appear secretive and manipulate elders’ daily lives. How can a concerned person get documentation of client meetings for the frail elder? The private bank officer perpetrates undue influence, even to the point of selecting vendors and service providers, because the elder is frail. While not indicative of all areas, in this city, experience with private banks has shown me that private bankers do not subject themselves to full disclosure. It’s a problem when the frail elder is the trustee and relatives are not in the geographic area to be involved. I agree: keeping everything open and transparent is the best course. It follows my social work training. Wish I could say that my experience with private bank trust officers concurred, but it does not.

]]> Comment on About Steal an Estate by Bre Harris http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/about-steal-an-estate/#comment-73 Bre Harris Tue, 12 Aug 2008 17:54:43 +0000 http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/about-steal-an-estate/#comment-73 The other "bad guys" are some times the state agencies that are suppose to protect the elderly as in MY mother's case in New Mexico. They are not on your side...and no state officials will help you. please feel free to contact me. The other “bad guys” are some times the state agencies that are suppose to protect the elderly as in MY mother’s case in New Mexico. They are not on your side…and no state officials will help you. please feel free to contact me.

]]> Comment on About Steal an Estate by Clarinda http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/about-steal-an-estate/#comment-72 Clarinda Tue, 12 Aug 2008 17:32:28 +0000 http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/about-steal-an-estate/#comment-72 I felt turmoil as I read this, knowing that everyday this type of thing happens. It's happened in my family as well. I work with seniors every day, could I use your main page as a print-out for our newsletter? I felt turmoil as I read this, knowing that everyday this type of thing happens. It’s happened in my family as well. I work with seniors every day, could I use your main page as a print-out for our newsletter?

]]> Comment on How To Steal an Estate by Karen http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/2007/06/15/overview-how-to-steal-an-estate/#comment-71 Karen Sun, 06 Jul 2008 07:46:35 +0000 http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/2007/06/15/overview-how-to-steal-an-estate/#comment-71 Guardian abuse is rampant in New York State. "legalized" abuse by the courts that are supposed to protect our loved ones are the very ones abusing them. Wake up America ! Baby boomers your next! Guardian abuse is rampant in New York State. “legalized” abuse by the courts that are supposed to protect our loved ones are the very ones abusing them.

Wake up America ! Baby boomers your next!

]]> Comment on How To Steal an Estate by Danna Mongoven http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/2007/06/15/overview-how-to-steal-an-estate/#comment-70 Danna Mongoven Thu, 26 Jun 2008 18:51:49 +0000 http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/2007/06/15/overview-how-to-steal-an-estate/#comment-70 I'm glad I read this. It all happened to my father and me and my two brothers. I often feel "crazy" because no one believes this stuff can happen or wants to do anything about it. My dad was not perfect but the stuff that happened mostly to ME as his normal nice daughter trying to protect him was horrifying. He had Parkinson's, diabetes and heart complications and it started very slowly - old girlfriend came back to town, seized health care control and ex business partner and dad's accountant were all involved in coaching her. I saved most of my dad's estate but he was forced to sign off a lot of his business and I was literally barred from driving through the security gate to visit my dad in Rancho Mirage, CA. I couldn't see him when he died. He would be on the phone with me saying, "I don't understand. I don't care who visits but THEY tell me you can't come over." An absolute nightmare I'll never get over. Hard for me to go to doctors now as I trust no one. I’m glad I read this. It all happened to my father and me and my two brothers. I often feel “crazy” because no one believes this stuff can happen or wants to do anything about it. My dad was not perfect but the stuff that happened mostly to ME as his normal nice daughter trying to protect him was horrifying. He had Parkinson’s, diabetes and heart complications and it started very slowly – old girlfriend came back to town, seized health care control and ex business partner and dad’s accountant were all involved in coaching her. I saved most of my dad’s estate but he was forced to sign off a lot of his business and I was literally barred from driving through the security gate to visit my dad in Rancho Mirage, CA. I couldn’t see him when he died. He would be on the phone with me saying, “I don’t understand. I don’t care who visits but THEY tell me you can’t come over.” An absolute nightmare I’ll never get over. Hard for me to go to doctors now as I trust no one.

]]> Comment on Three Tests by Mysty http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/three-tests/#comment-69 Mysty Thu, 26 Jun 2008 16:52:15 +0000 http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/three-tests/#comment-69 I recently learned that my father died. My sister and her husband even live in the same town that I do. My father had been living with them I believe since he had so many medical problems and suffered from dementia. This is all so over the top, I can not believe it. My father died and was burried and my brother and myself were never even notified. I went to my moms gravesite and found that the tombstone was changed. It used to say..."Beloved children and grandchildren" Now it says "Beloved parents and grandparents" I guess she had to change the part about children, because since she is now the only child that is loved, it would need to say "Beloved child" It all began 1 1/2 yrs ago after my mom died. My sister took over caring for my father. In no time at all, our father never wanted to see my brother and I anymore. We even had restraining orders served on us that made false statements about how we were trying to steal his home and money. I guess I need to find humor in this just to keep my sanity. You're traveling through another dimension -- a dimension not only of sight and sound but of mind. A journey into a wondrous land whose boundaries are that of imagination. That's a signpost up ahead: your next stop: the Twilight Zone! ...and one day you wake up only to discover your family never existed. I recently learned that my father died. My sister and her husband even live in the same town that I do. My father had been living with them I believe since he had so many medical problems and suffered from dementia.

This is all so over the top, I can not believe it. My father died and was burried and my brother and myself were never even notified.

I went to my moms gravesite and found that the tombstone was changed.
It used to say…”Beloved children and grandchildren” Now it says “Beloved parents and grandparents” I guess she had to change the part about children, because since she is now the only child that is loved, it would need to say “Beloved child”

It all began 1 1/2 yrs ago after my mom died. My sister took over caring for my father. In no time at all, our father never wanted to see my brother and I anymore. We even had restraining orders served on us that made false statements about how we were trying to steal his home and money.

I guess I need to find humor in this just to keep my sanity.

You’re traveling through another dimension — a dimension not only of sight and sound but of mind. A journey into a wondrous land whose boundaries are that of imagination. That’s a signpost up ahead: your next stop: the Twilight Zone! …and one day you wake up only to discover your family never existed.

]]> Comment on Deliberately Tasteless, YES! by Shanti http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/deliberately-tasteless-yes/#comment-68 Shanti Fri, 20 Jun 2008 17:37:55 +0000 http://stealanestate.wordpress.com/deliberately-tasteless-yes/#comment-68 I considered it a gift when my attorney informed me of this website. My disgruntled brother and his ex-wife were scheming for years to steal any estate money that may come from our Grandmother. They did EXACTLY what is written in "Step 2". It was a huge relief and a wonderful validation for the real victims to see it in writing. The end result was that my grandmother DID infact end up leaving my brother and his exwife money  . . .  and she aslo DID infact end up disinheriting us others. However, the joke is on them because they only received a small amount and they sold their soul to the devil for nothing.  They wasted 10 years of their life wrapped up in lies and their own evil misery and all they have to show for it is alcoholism.  ; ) I considered it a gift when my attorney informed me of this website. My disgruntled brother and his ex-wife were scheming for years to steal any estate money that may come from our Grandmother. They did EXACTLY what is written in “Step 2″. It was a huge relief and a wonderful validation for the real victims to see it in writing. The end result was that my grandmother DID infact end up leaving my brother and his exwife money  . . .  and she aslo DID infact end up disinheriting us others. However, the joke is on them because they only received a small amount and they sold their soul to the devil for nothing.  They wasted 10 years of their life wrapped up in lies and their own evil misery and all they have to show for it is alcoholism.  ; )

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